t；〃 she said； 〃Your Majesty； I am married。〃 〃Well；〃 he replied； 〃bring your husband along。 When we get to Teheran； my capital； I will take care of him。〃
Mr。 Phelps's talent as a speaker was quite unknown to his countrymen before he went abroad。 While he was a minister he made several notable addresses； which aroused a great deal of interest and admiration in Great Britain。 He was equally happy in formal orations and in the field of after…dinner speeches。 Mrs。 Phelps had such a phenomenal success socially that； when her husband was recalled and they left England； the ladies of both the great parties united； and through Lady Rosebery； the leader of the Liberal； and Lady Salisbury； of the Conservative； women； paid her a very unusual and complimentary tribute。
During John Hay's term as United States minister to Great Britain my visits to England were very delightful。 Hay was one of the most charming men in public life of his period。 He had won great success in journalism； as an author； and in public service。 At his house in London one would meet almost everybody worth while in English literary； public； and social life。
In the hours of conversation with him； when I was posting him on the latest developments in America； his comments upon the leading characters of the time were most racy and witty。 Many of them would have embalmed a statesman； if the epigram had been preserved； like a fly in amber。 He had officially a very difficult task during the Spanish War。 The sympathies of all European governments were with Spain。 This was especially true of the Kaiser and the German Government。 It was Mr。 Hay's task to keep Great Britain neutral and prevent her joining the general alliance to help Spain； which some of the continental governments were fomenting。
Happily； Mr。 Balfour； the British foreign minister； was cordially and openly our friend。 He prevented this combination against the United States。
During part of my term as a senator John Hay was secretary of state。 To visit his office and have a discussion on current affairs was an event to be remembered。 He made a prediction； which was the result of his own difficulties with the Senate； that on account of the two…thirds majority necessary for the ratification of a treaty； no important treaty sent to the Senate by the president would ever again be ratified。 Happily this gloomy view has not turned out to be entirely correct。
Mr。 Hay saved China； in the settlement of the indemnities arising out of the Boxer trouble； from the greed of the great powers of Europe。 One of his greatest achievements was in proclaiming the open door for China and securing the acquiescence of the great powers。 It was a bluff on his part； because he never could have had the active support of the United States； but he made his proposition with a confidence which carried the belief that he had no doubt on that subject。 He was fortunately dealing with governments who did not understand the United States and do not now。 With them； when a foreign minister makes a serious statement of policy； it is understood that he has behind him the whole military； naval； and financial support of his government。 But with us it is a long road and a very rocky one； before action so serious； with consequences so great； can receive the approval of the war…making power in Congress。
I called on Hay one morning just as Cassini； the Russian ambassador； was leaving。 Cassini was one of the shrewdest and ablest of diplomats in the Russian service。 It was said that for twelve years he had got the better of all the delegations at Pekin and controlled that extraordinary ruler of China； the dowager queen。 Cassini told me that from his intimate associations with her he had formed the opinion that she was quite equal to Catherine of Russia； whom he regarded as the greatest woman sovereign who ever lived。
Hay said to me： 〃I have just had a very long and very remarkable discussion with Cassini。 He is a revelation in the way of secret diplomacy。 He brought to me the voluminous instructions to him of his government on our open…door policy。 After we had gone over them carefully； he closed his portfolio and； pushing it aside； said： 'Now； Mr。 Secretary； listen to Cassini。' He immediately presented an exactly opposite policy from the one in the instructions； and a policy entirely favorable to us； and said： 'That is what my government will do。'〃 It was a great loss to Russian diplomacy when he died so early。
As senator I did all in my power to bring about the appointment of Whitelaw Reid as ambassador to Great Britain。 He and I had been friends ever since his beginning in journalism in New York many years before。 Reid was then the owner and editor of the New York Tribune； and one of the most brilliant journalists in the country。 He was also an excellent public speaker。 His long and intimate contact with public affairs and intimacy with public men ideally fitted him for the appointment。 He had already served with great credit as ambassador to France。
The compensation of our representatives abroad always has been and still is entirely inadequate to enable them to maintain； in comparison with the representatives of other governments； the dignity of their own country。 All the other great powers at the principal capitals maintain fine residences for their ambassadors； which also is the embassy。 Our Congress； except within the last few years； has always refused to make this provision。 The salary which we pay is scarcely ever more than one…third the amount paid by European governments in similar service。
I worked hard while in the Senate to improve this situation because of my intimate knowledge of the question。 When I first began the effort I found there was very strong belief that the whole foreign service was an unnecessary expense。 When Mr。 Roosevelt first became president； and I had to see him frequently about diplomatic appointments； I learned that this was his view。 He said to me： 〃This foreign business of the government； now that the cable is perfected； can be carried on between our State Department and the chancellery of any government in the world。 Nevertheless； I am in favor of keeping up the diplomatic service。 All the old nations have various methods of rewarding distinguished public servants。 The only one we have is the diplomatic service。 So when I appoint a man ambassador or minister； I believe that I am giving him a decoration； and the reason I change ambassadors and ministers is that I want as many as possible to possess it。〃
The longer Mr。 Roosevelt remained president； and the closer he came to our foreign relations； the more he appreciated the value of the personal contact and intimate knowledge on the spot of an American ambassador or minister。
Mr。 Reid entertained more lavishly and hospitably than any ambassador in England ever had； both at his London house and at his estate in the country。 He appreciated the growing necessity to the peace of the world and the progress of civilization of closer union of English…speaking peoples。 At his beautiful and delightful entertainments Americans came in contact with Englishmen under conditions most favorable for the appreciation by each of the other。 The charm of Mr。 and Mrs。 Whitelaw Reid's hospitality was so genuine； so cordial； and so universal； that to be their guest was an event for Americans visiting England。 There is no capital in the world where hospitality counts for so much as in London； and no country where the house…party brings people together under such favorable conditions。 Both the city and the country homes of Mr。 and Mrs。 Reid were universities of international good…feeling。 Mr。 Reid； on the official side； admirably represented his country and had the most intimate relations with the governing powers of Great Britain。
I recall with the keenest pleasure how much my old friend； Joseph H。 Choate； did to make each one of my visits to London during his term full of the most charming and valuable recollections。 His dinners felt the magnetism of his presence； and he showed especial skill in having； to meet his American guests； just the famous men in London life whom the American desired to know。
Choate was a fine conversationalist； a wit and a humorist of a high order。 His audacity won great triumphs； but if exercised by a man less endowed would have brought him continuously into trouble。 He had the faculty； the art； of so directing conversation that at his entertainments everybody had a good time； and an invitation always was highly prized。 He was appreciated most highly by the English bench and bar。 They recognized him as the leader of his profession in the United States。 They elected him a Bencher of the Middle Temple； the first American to receive that honor after an interval of one hundred and fifty years。 Choate's witticisms and repartees became the social currency of dinner…tables in London and week…end parties in the country。
Choate paid little attention to conventionalities； which count for so much and are so rigidly enforced； especially in royal circles。 I had frequently been at receptions； garden…parties； and other entertainments at Buckingham Palace in the time of Queen Victoria and also of King Edward。 At an evening reception the diplomats representing all the countries in the world stand in a solemn row； according to rank and length of service。 They are covered with decorations and gold lace。 The weight of the gold lace on some of the uniforms of the minor powers is as great as if it were a coat of armor。 Mr。 Choate； under regulations of our diplomatic service； could only appear in an ordinary dress suit。
While the diplomats stand in solemn array； the king and queen go along the line and greet each one with appropriate remarks。 Nobody but an ambassador and minister gets into that brilliant circle。 On one occasion Mr。 Choate saw me standing with the other guests outside the charmed circle and immediately left the diplomats； came to me； and said： 〃I am sure you would like to have a talk with the queen。〃 He went up to Her Majesty； stated the case and who I was； and the proposition was most graciously received。 I think the royalties were pleased to have a break in the formal etiquette。